Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Build and Grow

Last Saturday Luke and Jared had a daddy/son date to Lowe's Build and Grow.  Twice a month Lowe's puts on a free clinic where kids can make a fun project.  We had never gone before, but I had always thought Luke would enjoy it.

I registered him online (pre-registration is required) at the following site:


and then he and Jared made this monster truck together.


You can tell that Luke was pleased with the end result.  Jared said he stayed focused and interested, and they were the first ones finished.  While Jared and Luke did manly things Micah and I popped next door to do our weekly Walmart shopping.  I had anticipated the craft taking about an hour.  Luke and Jared were done after 20 minutes, but as Lowe's is Luke's all time EVER hang out, he didn't mind waiting.  He saw fans, air conditioners, tractors, lawn mowers, bath tubs, washing machines, and all the other things that he just loves.  I think Luke had a good Saturday!

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Valentine's Party

Luke had a little Valentine "party" at school.  For the first few minutes the kids sang songs.  Luke REALLY likes "Going on a Bear Hunt"-- he was very into it.  I was so happy to see him interacting with friends and participating in all the activities.  I, of course, forgot my camera.  But Ms. Nozomi (Luke H's mom) took some pics for me.  It's great to have friends with cameras!




There are a lot of rules about food in schools these days, I guess.  The food served has to be prepared by someone with a food handler's permit (which means that it has to come from a store, etc.)  The school provided cupcakes.  So I made Luke a Gluten free cupcake of his own.  


Luke was happy to sit by his best friend, Luke H.


After the party we went to Luke H's house to play for just a bit.  The boys had a great time pushing trucks and shoveling snow.






Friday, February 15, 2013

Funny Things

Luke has said a lot of funny things lately.

Last night, on our way to Sam's club, Luke asked about his antibiotic.  I told him that he was all done taking it.  Then he asked about his probiotic.  I told him that he would keep eating that everyday.  He was quiet for a moment and then asked, "What about a lullaby-otic?"

This morning I played a little trick on Luke.  When he figured out that I was kidding he yelled out, "You psyched me out in the end!"  (That's a line from the theme song on the show "Psych.")  We had a conversation a few weeks ago when he asked me what that means, and I had explained that it means to trick some one.  Pretty smart to remember that.

He is also all about making up excuses and explanations to try to avoid getting into trouble.  Micah is not supposed to get his ears wet because of his tube surgery.  He got an ear infection last week after dousing his head with water during his bath.  This morning in the bath both he and Luke rubbed bubbles from the bath all over his head.  I told Luke that he can't put bubbles or water on Micah's hair because we don't want his ears to get wet.  Luke looked at me and said, "Well, you didn't do a good job washing it.  So I had to."

Also a couple weeks ago we had a family from church over for dinner.  They have a three-year-old son.  After prayer, Luke tattled on Gabriel for not closing his eyes during the prayer.  We pointed out that Luke couldn't know that unless HIS eyes were open.  His response was, "Well, Gabriel was copying me," as if to say: We both did it, but I  was the original.  I'm not sure why that struck all the adults as hilarious.

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Happy Valentine's Day

from these two little heartbreakers!



Tumbling Class

We started a family tumbling class on Saturday mornings.  It's officially called "Mommy and Me," but there are quite a few dads that come so Jared doesn't feel out of place.  Jared and I switch off between helping Luke and helping Micah.  It is a very unstructured class, and if I was hoping to raise the next Hamm twins I'd be disappointed.  But since we have two free spirited boys with short attention spans, unstructured works great.  If they lose interest with an activity they can wander over to the balance beams and no one cares.  So it is a lot of fun and is working out great.

Working on a front roll



Balance beam
(Luke loves the low ones but is a chicken on the higher ones)


Waiting for his turn with the teacher.


So Grown Up!

Micah is all of a sudden looking so much more grown up!  I don't know if I'm ready for him to be so big.  And so opinionated.  He has STRONG feelings about his Thomas clothes.


Monday, January 28, 2013

Luke's Jobs

I've mentioned before that I have a tendency to coddle the boys too much.  This is in part because I'm a softie for a cutie, but I also do things for them because they are so distracted and move so slowly that it is just easier for me to do it.  However, I know that they have to learn how to do things for themselves, and I also know that the only way they will learn is if I MAKE them.  And in reading the conference editions of the Ensign (church magazine) we were advised to give our kids allowance to help them develop responsibility.  So we started a chore system that is linked to Luke's allowance.  He gets 5 cents for each chore completed AND if he gets all of his checks in one day, he gets as EXTRA LONG SNUGGLE HUG at bedtime.  If he doesn't do one of his chores, I take a nickel away.

Luke's chores are very much meant to target the skills he is working on.  They are:

1.  Poo poo like a big boy (This means he has to sit forwards on the toilet and keep his pants and shoes on while he goes potty.  Recently it also means wiping his own bottom.)

2.  Eat a new food without gagging or throwing up.  Recently Luke has become a pro with scrambled eggs and cubed ham.

3.  Pick up your toys.

4.  Put on your pajamas all by yourself.

5.  (Tues. & Sat.) Empty your bathroom trash can.

6.  (Tues. & Sat.) Clean your potty.  (His potty needs it twice a week!)


One night last week I sent Luke to his room to put on his pajamas.  He came back wearing this:



But he did it all by himself!

(Luke is really into making funny faces for the camera!)

And of course Micah wanted his picture taken too.


"Cheese!"

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

5 Dots

In my (sort of) panic to get Luke ready for kindergarten, we started doing seat time everyday.  Well, that's the goal anyway.  It doesn't actually happen everyday.  Anyway, this was an idea that Luke's ABA therapist and I put together to help Luke learn how to sit in a seat and work independently.  To begin he did activities like play with the ipad or paint or string beads on a shoelace-- any activity that he could do on his own and that he enjoyed-- with the simple goal to practice sitting in his seat.  I praised him for staying in his chair and for working independently.  Then I introduced more "academic" activities like tracing letters and doing coloring activities.  Once these types of activities were introduced Luke needed a clear motivator to help him stay focused.  Shortly after moving to Amarillo I made this "dot chart" with card stock, lamination, velcro, and buttons.  It is the BEST THING EVER.



When Luke is doing a good job (like when he completes a task) he earns a dot.  When he has 5 dots he gets to do the reward that we had, in advance, agreed that he could have/do after earning 5 dots.  So he will get to turn the fan on in Mama's room a few times.  Or pretend to drive my car.  Or use the extension cord to plug in his stereo.  Or use his little CD player.  Or pick one of Mama's CDs.  Or whatever it is that makes him tick that day.  Currently the things he picks most often are:

1) Turning the oven vent on and off
2) Pretending to drive a car
3) Using the power sander


Here he is with the sander.
(We are redoing our kitchen table and chairs.)



When we first started doing more academic type activities he would earn 5 dots in the process of completing one activity (like one worksheet) because he needed frequent reinforcement.  He has now come far enough that, often, each dot is a different activity.  For more challenging activities, he can earn 2-3 dots for doing an activity independently in a reasonable time frame.  Here are some examples of the ways Luke earns his dots:

I really like Luke's private OT here.  She pinpointed some struggles that Luke has and is really good about giving me homework to do with him.  Some of the things we are targeting are tracking with his eyes (keeping his head still and following an object by moving only his eyes,) writing lowercase letters (Luke especially has a hard time with diagonal lines), and drawing shapes.  With his shapes we target directionality, like making a circle that starts at the top and moves to the left first (as opposed to the right.)  These are activities that require a lot of verbal reminders and even hand over hand teaching.  These are important skills that he needs, but he can't do them independently yet.  Luke usually has one "cycle" of dot-earning that focuses on difficult tasks in which I am highly involved.

Sometimes we are solely targeting independent work.  So he does activities that he has more or less mastered.  The point is just to stay in his seat and get his work done without me being next to him.  Some of the activities he does for this 5-dot cycle are letter worksheets (the letters he already knows well), coloring, cutting, puzzles, or drawing pictures.  We try to do 1 cycle of independent work each day too.

And recently we added another cycle where we do a reading lesson from the book "Teach your child to read in 100 Easy Lessons."  I got this book because Luke is excited for reading and ready to learn, but I am unsure how to teach phonics correctly.  In every song, etc. kids are taught that A says aaaa, like in apple.  But what about in the word "about" or "almost" or "ape?"  This book helps me teach the phonics rules.  And then we also do sight words some too, even though this book bashes on that technique for teaching.  But whatever.  I have found that usually a "little bit of this and a little bit of that" approach tends to be the best.

Letter practice-- 
Micah always joins in for easel writing.
He is a BIG fan of the dry-erase markers.




It probably sounds a bit overwhelming to do these cycles everyday.  It was at first, but we've made a routine now, and since Luke is used to the routine, it goes pretty fast.  And then there is the fact that Luke is HIGHLY motivated to earn his dots.  So most of the time a cycle starts at his request.  He will say, "Mom, can I earn 5 dots so I can drive your car?" and I'll say sure!  If I'm busy at the moment we focus on working independently.  If I'm free, we target a more difficult skill.  So Luke is happy.  I'm happy.  And he is making sooooo much progress.  And, as an added bonus, since Micah is always watching during the lessons and wanting to participate too, Micah is learning a ton as well.

Now.  Can I earn 5 dots if I clean my bathrooms today?

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Eat it or Wear it

Micah chooses to wear it.




Every single day!

Last week he rubbed cheese, applesauce, sweet potatoes, glue stick and vaseline into his hair (among other things.)  He's a mess.  But he's a cute mess!

Sunday, January 13, 2013

Thomas Shoes! Thomas Shoes!


A few weeks ago I found a pair of Thomas and Friends snow boots at a consignment store here in Amarillo.  They are now the ONLY pair of shoes that Micah will wear.  He stretches out his legs and demands that people look at his "Thomas shoes."  He shows them to friends and strangers alike.  He loves them so much that he will bring them to Jared or me at any time of day and demand that he "wear Thomas shoes."  He is often found wearing them with his pajamas.  I'm guessing he may still be wearing these shoes in July.  I can't wait to see how they look with shorts...